Thursday, June 11, 2009

IQ test~~~try and guess =D

  1. 2 atuk - 1 nenek= ??
  2. Which animal most honest?
  3. Elephant=fish Monkey=fish Crocodile=fish Fish= ??
  4. Which animal love to make love the most?-.-"
  5. Which animal most pro in karate?
  6. When u see what kind of tree u will run?
  7. Which animal wear the biggest bra?
  8. A bus driver starts the travel at station A...he picks up 5 ppl then he went to station B...at station B he drop 3 ppl...then he went to station C...at station C he picks up 12 ppl...the next station...what will drop?=)

Have fun on it...answers pls post it at commentz...thx^^

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Let's learn about alphabates n sentences xD-.-"

ABCDEFG
A: A
B: Boy
C: Can
D: Do
E: Everything
F: For
G: Girl
What's the meaning of bitch?
B: Beautiful
I: Intelligent
T: Talented
C: Cheerful
H: Hamsap

Friday, June 5, 2009

A fRiEnD

A fRiEnD..*

(A)cCePtS yOu aS yOu aRe**
(B)eLieVeS iN "yOu"**
(C)alLs yOu juSt tO say "HI"**
(D)oEsN't giVe uP oN yOu**
(E)nVisiOns tHe wHoLe oF yOu**
(F)oRgivEs yOuR miStaKeS**
(G)ivEs unConDitiOnalLy**
(H)eLpS yOu**
(I)nVitEs yOu over**
(J)uSt "bE" wiTh yoU**
(K)eEpS yOu cLosE aT hEaRt**
(L)oVeS yOu fOr wHo yOu aRe**
(M)aKeS a diFfeRenCe iN yOuR life**
(N)eVeR juDgeS**
(O)fFeRs sUppOrT**
(P)iCkS yOu uP**
(Q)uiEtS yOuR fEaRs**
(R)aiSeS yOuR sPirRtS**
(S)aYs niCe tHinGs aBoUt yOu**
(T)elLs yOu tHe trUtH whEn yOu nEeD tO hEaR iT**
(U)nDeRstaNdS yOu**
(V)aLueS yOu**
(W)aLkS bEsiDe yOu**
(X)-pLaiN tHinGs yOu dOn'T uNdErsTanD**
(Y)elLs wHeN yOu wOn'T liSteN**
(Z)zzz at yOur pLacE dUriNg vAcaTiOns*

Friday, May 29, 2009

Do you think love is painful?

Who hasn't experienced the pain of love? Or is it the pain of rejection? The pain of self doubt? The pain of fear? It's important to distinguish between love and totally separate feelings.
When it comes to pain surrounding love, we're more likely referring to the “add-ons” of love. The love baggage, we might call it. For some reason, many people assume negative emotions are a part or element of love. But experientially we know this isn't true.
Love is not painful, it feels incredible. The pain and hurt we feel doesn’t come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, etc. So why do we as a culture lump all those other feelings in with love?
Perhaps its because we feel these uncomfortable emotions most often in association with our love relationships. Our primary relationships are important to us, so we assume these doubts and fears are all part of the loving experience. But is this really true?
When we are fearful, angry, anxious, unhappy, or jealous, are we truly experiencing a state of love? They sure feel different, don't they? Love feels warm, open, joyous and filled with a deep sense of appreciation. Pain steps into a love relationship when you switch it from a "wanted relationship," into a "needed relationship." You don't NEED any one relationship. Want? Yes. Need? No.
If you go into a relationship not feeling terribly good about yourself, you're more likely to become dependent on your partner to help you feel good about yourself. If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. That dependency can create all kinds of fear and unhappiness when there's a perceived threat to you staying together.
If we aren’t giving ourselves the acceptance we crave, we look to those around us to provide it for us. Again, none of this has a thing to do with the love you feel, but everything to do with the fear you feel.
If you really want to remove the love baggage of fear and unhappiness, the first step is to improve your self awareness and self acceptance.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

People can change if they love someone ?

I have pointed out that you have little chance of dating someone who is tailor-made to your particular personality.
The best you are likely to do is what we called "good suitability." Therefore, there will be many things about you both which the other would very much like to change.
We cannot emphasize too strongly that every person has to act in accordance with the kind of person he is. No promise, however sincere, whether made before, during, or after a marriage, can change the essential pattern of any personality.
This is why wise selection is so vital. The one you marry is the one you get. Of course, people do change with age and experience. The one you marry will not forever remain the game. Neither will you. Such changes will, in part, result from the experiences of marriage.
But such changes will be what they will be, not what you want them to be. They may leave the other less, rather than more satisfactory to you.

Can you influence this process of inevitable change in desired ways?

In trivial matters unrelated to a basic need, you may be able to get some changes with little difficulty. The problem of changing a person is often like that of alterations in a house. A man bought a house which had a tiny bathroom which could easily have been larger had the builder used some of the waste room in the hall.
Before the house was built, such a change would have been simple. After it was built, the change would require a shifting of three partitions and two doorways. Such a change would have cost too much. So it is with the ones we date. If we could bring them up from babyhood, we would properly make some real changes.
But after they are grown, basic changes may prove far more costly than they are worth. Furthermore, a house cannot actively resist alterations, but a husband can; and usually does.
Finally, if you think people can change if they love someone enough, it may indicate that something is wrong with you, rather than with the other party.
Many people have personal deficiencies which they feel unable to overcome, and about which they feel insecure. If they can get others to adopt their peculiarities, they feel less uncomfortable about them.
Those who are too zealous in seeking to convert others to their religion or their point of view are rightly viewed with suspicion. Often what they are really trying to do is to gain support for their own abnormalities as a means of finding greater security for themselves.
Still believe people can change if they love someone?

How To Love Someone?

What’s the first step to loving someone? Start with this. If you’re a man, be a gentleman. If you’re a woman, be a lady. Sounds simple enough for a start? We all begin to learn right from wrong around the age of 2. We begin to learn what being a lady and a gentleman is around the age of 5. Some of us never master the rudiments of this, but we all have an idea, just like we all know right from wrong. We don’t always DO the right thing, but we know which choice is right – deep down – if you’re even moderately intelligent, you know right from wrong. And we know what it takes to be a lady or a gentleman. It just may need a little refining. Don’t be hard on yourself. Just give it a try. I won’t say how – you really know. Think about it. Start with this, and then read on. I won't go into a lot of depth. This is meant to get you thinking. Read on and consider the concepts and message - not just the words. But some of these are going to require some work on your part – and some long term commitment. That’s what love is. Being in love and making it last is work. No one teaches you that. It’s not the fairy tale that ends “…and they lived happily ever after.” If they did live happily ever after, they worked at it. This is work. But it’s the most wonderful, most fulfilling work you’ll ever do.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Why Does Love Hurt So Much?

I'm sure you've heard the expression: Love Hurts. Why does love have to hurt so much?Truly, I wish I had the answer. When we go through a breakup, our eyes get puffy from lack of sleep and crying. Our chest hurts probably not so much from an actual breaking heart but more likely shortness of breath because we are in "fear" mode.Why Does Love Hurt So Much?Yes, when we lose someone we've been with for a while, we are losing love. Or, at least we are in fear that we are losing love. And, fear blocks love. When we go into that mode, it seems that we are creating more of what we don't want: less love.So, if you're hurting - and I can empathize with your pain - try to remember to keep breathing. Allow yourself to feel hurt, allow yourself to feel the loss, but remember than when you create a space in your life you might be allowing more love to come into your life in the not-so-distant future.Not only that, but sometimes we need to release things in order to grow. I think this is where most relationships fall down: expectation and attachment to things hoped for but not entirely real. It is those expectations that drive some people to drugs or alcohol, others to immerse themselves in their work, the kids, food, exercise, or any other number of obsessions to try to deal with unmatched expectation.The only thing I can say to you, if this is what you've been doing, is to consider releasing the expectation. Releasing the expectation is really the only opportunity to create a truly healthy, happy relationship, anyway.I'm not suggesting this so that you necessarily get back together. Just release it anyway and see how life unfolds.And, in the meantime, remember to keep breathing. Remember to do the things you love most. Remember to be loving to your friends and family who love you.I write these words with all the love in my heart, to you, who is hurting.The pain will recede over time. Life will go on, if you let it. Release control, take a deep breath, and let it out. Then do it again. Keep yourself busy with exercise. Clear out any clutter that's been blocking you from being healthy environment or creating unnecessary attachment, too. Once you do, you will feel more alive, more free, and more able to love with the WHOLE you again.