Sunday, August 9, 2009

Friends !~

There is a saying tat girls" no man is meant to be an island ". I believe that applies to all of us.
People need other people for various reasons. Without the suports of friends, life would be a lonely ride indeed. Friends are needed mostly as companions from which we can share each others' company, thoughts and opinion. The exchanging of ideas and such promote a better understanding of the people around us.
There is better harmoni and diversity.

Friends can also be encourages. Humans are emotionalby nature. Our moods and feelings are often dictated by the people around us and put mathers into a better perspective as they provide us with a shoulder to cry on, ear to listen and a hand to guide us. A smile from a good friend will do more then a thousands of words from a well-meaning acquaintance. Our happiness success enjoy is doubled when shared with a friend. There is no limit to what a friend can do.

There is no denying that friends are important to us, however, it is equally important realise that investing in friendships requires a vast amount of time concern and tender loving care. It takes alot of wisdom to say the right things at the right time or to say nothing at all. The various intricacies of friendship extends further then birthdays and schools, it travels along the road of life, meeting the needs of childhood, parenthood and death as well.

Friendships must endure the test of time when changes are made in oder to adapt to the changing paterns of life. Unyielding heart is a good disaster to the harmoni established in a friendship and must be avoided at all costs. Great friends are able to accept a friend to be himself or herself even at the cost of the friendship itself. Friendships found to adpat and grow will always be like a garden that is filled with wonderful flowers to enjoy.

The fact of the matter is, friends are essential to a persons' growth and development. However, friends also has the power to hurt us the most. The mind cannot comprehend the betrayer and humility such " friends " have put us though despited our sacrifices and loyalty which showered apond them. Despite this, such incidents are important learning chapters in our lifes and no one can do the job as well as these " friends ".

More often than not, friends make our lifes richer with the experiences we go through together, be they in our inner circle of friends, or the outer circle, they each played an important role in diversitying our experiences and knowledge. Friends, what would we do without them ?